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Does your mom's big day inspire yours?

Welcome to The Toast, your new go-to weekly newsletter for all things wedding. Each week, we'll dive into the latest trends, share tips, and bring you a variety of stories to inspire you from your engagement to your big day.

💐 Happy Mother’s Day to all the mamas out there!

Moms play a huge role in our weddings, whether they're standing by our side or inspiring us in spirit. They spark the ideas for the celebrations we dream up, from their own wild wedding stories to memories of stunning dresses and unforgettable meals.

My mom always described her wedding as the ultimate party, which sparked my desire to throw a wedding that my guests would rave about for years. It's funny how those stories from our moms can shape our own wedding dreams.

✹ Monday night's Met Gala rolled out a green carpet, blooming with inspiration for brides-to-be. Under the theme "The Garden of Time," fashion's biggest night featured stunning gowns that spark ideas for any bride. Highlights included Kylie Jenner's dramatic train, Rachel Zegler's fresh spin on 'something blue,' and Ariana Grande's vintage-inspired drop-waist.

@kyliejenner | @rachelzegler

👰 Celebrity wedding watch: For all the Bieber fans out there, Justin and Hailey recently shared some exciting news—they've renewed their vows and are expecting a baby! In "Bridgerton" news, Phoebe Dynevor is now engaged to producer Cameron Fuller. She showcased her elegant bezel-set oval diamond ring at the Met Gala, complementing it with a beautiful pale pink gown from Victoria Beckham.

đŸ„” Heat wave planning for summer weddings: Heads up, summer brides and grooms! 2024 is predicted to be scorchingly hot. The National Weather Service warns of above-normal temperatures, making it essential to have a heat plan in place for your wedding. Wedding planners are getting proactive about guest comfort—consider cool stations, hydration ideas, personal fans, and lighter fare to keep everyone cool and festive.

👗 Over the weekend, SI Swimsuit model Katie Austin tied the knot with Lane Armstrong in La Quinta, California, a place close to their hearts. In a touching tribute to her mother, Denise Austin, Katie wore her mom's 1983 wedding dress, tailored into a chic mini for their rehearsal dinner. “Wearing my mom's wedding dress was a symbol of a lifetime's marriage,” reflecting on her parents' 41 years of happiness. It’s a beautiful and fun way to weave family history into your big day, showing that something old can also be something new and chic.

1. @danyachenphoto 2. @sav.and.cam 3. @styllayangphoto 4.@miscellaneousmethods

🍋 Fruitful Decor 🍋

Incorporating seasonal fruits into your wedding decor is a fresh trend that brings color, texture, and a wonderful scent to your celebration. Whether it's the bright charm of citrus fruits like lemons, oranges, and grapefruits, the exotic allure of papayas, the crisp freshness of apples, or the rustic feel of dried fruits, each variety brings its own unique flair to your tables.

Here's how to weave them into your wedding day:

  • Centerpieces and Table Runners: Intersperse fruits among flowers directly on your tables or in vases or bowls.

  • Decorative Accents: Use fruit as part of larger floral arrangements, or incorporate them into the overall theme by adding them to signage, name card holders, and more.

  • Cake and Desserts: Adorn your dessert tables and cake displays with slices of fresh fruit or whole pieces.

Every week, we feature brides' biggest regrets and best decisions. If you're a bride with a story to tell, we want to hear from you! 💌 Click here to submit yours.

“I regret this”

"I wish I hadn’t focused on loosing extra weight for the wedding. I lost a lot of weight in the last week. I was fine the way I was and then the dress didn’t quite fit me right up top."

“I wish I could have been more present at the welcome party and have eaten more of the amazing food. I think I was full of anticipation for the next day.” 

“I'm so glad I did this”

“I am so happy I changed into a mini to dance (though in retrospect I would have made it a strapless cut) because I was tripping all over my long dress.”

“I am so happy I did the flower strung chuppah, despite how much extra it added to the flower budget. It was a beautiful piece that was unique, gave the space a central focus, and looked great in the all the photos.”

- Yael H.

In this section we'll be sharing tips straight from the pros! Wedding planners, photographers, florists, decorators, caterers, venues, etc. We want to hear from you!

Sweet ways to incorporate your mom on your wedding day

Want to make your wedding extra special for your mom too? Here are some easy ways to involve her:

  • Walk Down the Aisle: Break tradition by having your mom walk you down the aisle, alone or with your dad. There are no set rules on who should escort you.

  • Vintage Flair: Add something from her wedding day to your outfit, like jewelry or a piece of her wedding dress.

  • Get Ready Together: Have your mom join you while getting ready. It’s a perfect moment for bonding and capturing beautiful mother-daughter photos.

  • Ask Her Opinion: Involve her in the planning. Whether it’s the dress or the decor, she’ll love seeing her ideas come to life and feel truly part of your day.

  • A Little Surprise: Give her a special gift or a note on the morning of your wedding to show how much you appreciate her.

  • Give a Shout-Out: Make sure to thank her during the reception. A quick toast or thank-you can go a long way.

These tips can help make your wedding day memorable for you and your mom!

  1. Bride Earrings - $44 - Perfect for a bachelorette party!

  2. Ivory Satin Heel - $395

  3. Satin Robe - Sale for $70.40 - Cute for getting ready day of

  4. Beautiful Mini Dress - $1295

  5. Floral Satin Heel- $365

  6. Engraved Pocket Mirror - $38 - Nice gift for mother of the bride

What to share your story? 💌 Click here to submit yours.

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